How does one succeed in life?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What are the differences between Republicans and Democrats in their views of the government's role in society? How do these differences impact policymaking?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

How can I stop drinking?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Ask yourself:

If you were to bet, will Canada bend over to Trump's America demands or remain inflexible until the last day of his Presidency on January 20, 2029? Will America or Canada win this geopolitical arm-wrestling? I'm rooting for America.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What I need from you?

What does it feel like wearing tights?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

In bed, not in music, which is better, a drummer or a bass player?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Why do we still feel attached or jealous when a covert narcissist moves on, even after realizing their toxicity and the suffering they caused?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How did it feel when experiencing gay sex for the first?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Hangs out with loser friends.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

How would you feel if your girlfriend had dick pics on her phone?

Procrastinates a lot.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What should I do if I love someone who does not love me?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

That's it for today.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Older Americans are happiest living in these 5 US states, study says — is yours one of them? - Yahoo

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How did Neo defeat the architect at the end of The Matrix: Reloaded? Was it solely due to his belief in himself or were there other factors at play?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How much of lounge pianists playing is from repertoire, and how much is improvised?

Does not procrastinate.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Why do so many men on the internet try to compete with women, or try to "humble" and bash them? There's so many videos across my tiktok and YouTube of men claiming how they're wanting to get back at women and put them in thier place.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What is the most heartbreaking or sad love story that you ever had (experienced)?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Do narcissists love their children?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.